434 W. Park Street
Arlington Heights, IL 60005
Phone: 847-253-5353
Web Site: www.olwparish.org

Pastoral Staff

Mr. Ken Adamick
Parish Business Manager

Thomas & Irene Corcoran
Permanent Deacon Couple

Ms. Donna Cunningham
Pastoral Associate

Ms. Judith Dzieglewicz
Assistant Principal

Rev. Edward R. Fialkowski
Pastor

Brendan Foley
Permanent Deacon

Ms. Kathleen Freiburger
Director of Office Services

Dr. Donald Grossnickle
Permanent Deacon

Mr. Dan McMahon
Director of Music

Mr. Kevin O'Connell
Youth Director

Mrs. Patsy Rhinehart
Parish Nurse

Sister Joan Shields
Sister Adrienne Weseman
Directors of Religious Education

Rev. Patrick M. Wangai
Associate Pastor

Mr. David Wood
School Principal

Rev. Daniel J. Brady
Retired Priest & Resident

Rev. Harold T. O'Hara
Founder of OLW
(Deceased)

Rev. John J. Mackin
Pastor Emeritus
(Deceased)

Rev. Richard J. Ehrens
Pastor Emeritus
(Deceased)

Rev. Mick Egan
Weekend Presider


CHRISTMAS ANGELS NEEDED!

"When you hold a lunch or dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet invite the poor, the cripple, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."
Luke 14:12-14

As many of you know, for the last eight years the generous families and friends of Our Lady of the Wayside Parish have been supporting a wonderful cause. We have been helping St. Benedict's parish in Chicago feed approximately 350 homeless and lonely folks on Christmas day. Again, this year our help is needed with coordinating this effort.

Last year, the OLW community provided 30 freshly cooked and carved turkeys and enough monetary donations for us to purchase: 110 lbs. of ham and enough dinner rolls, butter, half & half, coffee, pumpkin pie, sugar, corn, green beans, cranberries, mashed potatoes, stuffing, paper goods, soda, milk, silverware, etc. to feed over 350 people! Our cars were loaded Christmas morning and a group of Waysider's drove down to St. Benedict's to deliver the food, help prepare the parish hall, visit with some very lonely people, and help spread the joy of Christmas! We pray that you are able to support this wonderful cause again this year!

You can help by offering to cook a nice big juicy turkey, cook a ham or three, make mashed potatoes for 50 (hams and potatoes provided) or make a monetary donation. The turkeys can be dropped off at Pete and Jan LeTourneau's house on Christmas Eve or between 8:00 and 8:30 Christmas morning. The "shopping team" will use the donations to buy all of the other items. We will probably go shopping Wednesday, December 23, so we would appreciate donations made by Monday, December 21. Donations can be dropped off at the LeTourneau's house, checks can be made payable to the OLW/St. Vincent DePaul Society for tax purposes. Another way you can help is by providing hats, scarfs and glove sets for the homeless, you can wrap these if you like or just drop them off. These are raffled off after the dinner and often times it will be the only gift many people will receive for the year. If you are not in a position to help this year, please remember the folks at St. Benedict in your prayers.

As mentioned earlier, there are some families who caravan down to St. Benedicts on Christmas morning. Some folks just take the trip to help deliver the food and head back home. Others like to stay awhile to help prepare the hall and food or just visit with some of the guests. The caravan leaves the LeTourneau house at 8:30 a.m. Christmas Day. The guests are served from 11:00 a.m. a.m. to 1:00 p.m. They are usually looking for servers, so if you would like to serve the meal; plan to arrive around 10:30 to receive your table assignment.

Please let us know if you are able to cook a turkey, make a donation, or help Christmas morning.

Christmas Blessings to all,
Pete and Jan LeTourneau

ADVENT RECONCILIATION SERVICES 2009
Monday, December 14th, 2009
Our Lady of the Wayside - Church 7:30 p.m.

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009
St. Edna Parish - Church - 7:30 p.m.

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009
St. James - Parish Center - 7:30 p.m.

5

MOLA
Huge thanks to all the teens and adults who went to Mission of Our Lady of the Angels Mobile Food Pantry last weekend. Over 265 residents from the Humboldt Neighborhood were served. Know that you helped bring the Christmas Spirit to so many. Thank you for spreading joy, hope, and love!

PEER MINISTRY
Time to finish off the calendar year in style. We have our Christmas Celebration tonight (Dec. 13th). Everyone is asked to bring one wrapped gag gift (between $5-$10 or homemade). Have fun with the gag idea. Let's see who has the "funnest" or funkiest idea.

As discussed last week, we are definitely still on for the "Downtown Winter Outing" on Monday, Dec 28th. Exact time is still being determined---probably early afternoon taking the train into the city.

CORE
We'll meet next Sunday, December 20th from 5-7 p.m. Let's do a combo regular meeting plus a little Christmas fun thrown in.

TEEN MISSION TRIP
Because of CHWC camp date conflicts, a final decision for the OLW Teen Mission Trip is still to be confirmed. We will be participating in either the Betsy Lane, KY camp July 11th-17th or the Pittsburgh, PA camp July 18th-24th. A final determination will be made early January and registration will open then. Please know that spots may fill up almost immediately.

KAIROS
Kairos 9 will take place over President's day weekend, Feb. 12th-15th. Registrations have been coming in. Please sign-up as soon as possible. Both the Registration brochure and Permission forms are online. Kairos is open to any high school junior or senior. A great opportunity to get away from the craziness of life and focus on one's self, others, and God. Could be one of the most powerful weekends in your life. Amazing fun as well.


CAMP WOW HIGH SCHOOL COUNSELORS
Applications are finally available for Camp WOW high school counselors. Please take some time to consider if this is right for you. We are looking for freshman-seniors who believe they have leadership skills along with a strong Christian witness. If this is you, apps can be downloaded off the parish website. Deadline is January 7th. Spots will be tight this year. Camp WOW is truly a fantastic combination of fun, faith, and friendship.

PEER COUNCIL

Christmas Extravaganza

Its good to celebrate the season in style: Peer Council style that is! Hopefully everyone has received invitations. Plan is to meet at Putting Edge in Hoffman Estates: 7th graders from 5:30 pm-7:00 pm and 8th graders at 7:15 pm until 8:45 pm.

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS

Monday, December 14

4:00 Practice in Church with R.E.P. 7th and 8th Graders who volunteered for the Advent/Christmas Prayer Service.

Tuesday, December 15

The following R.E.P. grades have class:

Grades 1-4 - 4:00-5:15. First Grade Christmas Pageant is in church at 4:15.

Grade 7-8 - 7:00-8:30. These students will attend an Advent/Christmas Prayer Service in Church at 7:10.

Practice in Church from 12:40-1:30 with Mr. Tom Smith's fourth grade class for their participation in the All-School Advent/Christmas Prayer Service on Wednesday, December 16 at 10:45.

Sunday, December 20
Last "I Am Special" class before Christmas.

ADOPT-A-FAMILY

Scholarship Fund for Families in
Religious Education Program

The following families are still in need of financial assistance in providing a religious education for their children. If you are able to assist  in some small way with the religious education of the children listed below, we would be most appreciative of your help, as families suffering financial hardship continue to request a partial or complete scholarship.

Tuition per Student $210.00
First Eucharist $75.00
First Reconciliation $50.00
Confirmation $115.00

Thank you to a number of parishioners who have already adopted families. Some amounts are different because of sacramental fees for some grade levels and also some parents made a partial payment.

6

7

CLASSROOM HAPPENINGS

CLASSROOM HAPPENINGS FROM THE FIFTH GRADE

8

9

12

13

MINISTERS OF THE LITURGY


5:00 pm Saturday, December 19, 2009
Presider: Father Patrick Wangai
Lector: Ann Ptacin, Mike Hollis
Euch. Min.: Robert Crabbe,
Rosalie Crabbe, Coord., Ryan  Crabbe, Linda Dahlquist, Laura Divane, Bridie  Downey, Jessica Fino, Marge Franzen, Cathy
Gastfield, Bob Guretz, Teresa Stewart
Altar Serv.: Natalie Brady, Jenny Brandt, Jack Brandt, Joe Brandt
Music Min.: Choir/Instrumentalist

7:00 am Sunday, December 20, 2009
Presider: Father Dan Brady
Deacon Don Grossnickle - Preaching
Lector: Arno Lemke, Nancy Lipinski
Euch. Min.: Vicki Muscarello, Janet Peters, Veronica Putzbach,  John Reif,
Owen West, Coord., Kathy Wolan,  Sharon Zurek
Altar Serv.: Tom Cleary, Mary Cleary, Mary Collins,
Patsy Collins
Music Min.: Cantor

8:15 am Sunday, December 20, 2009
Presider:
Father Paschal Mbagwu
Deacon Don Grossnickle - Preaching
Lector: Jim Frett, John Baker
Euch. Min.: Joanne Beczek,
Genny Powers, Coord., Michael  Scoglietti, Pauline Scoglietti, Michael Spehar, Ron  Stein, Pat Van Klompenburg, Stan Van
Klompenburg, Malou Ugalino
Altar Serv.: Matthew Buck, Jerry Cavanagh, Maeve Cavanagh,  Carrie Cyboran
Music Min.: Cantor

9:45 am Sunday, December 20, 2009
Presider:
Father Charles Ssenyondo
Lector: Sally Shewmon, Chris Vann
Euch. Min.: June Bourke, Nancy Farwell, Bob Galvanoni,
Mary  Ann Galvanoni, Coord., Scott Gustafson, Diane  Kirschner, Darla Krzeczowski, Rich Pfisterer,
Michael Madison, Mary McBride, Ken Miksta,  Palikowski, Krys Tischer
Altar Serv.: Jackie Clark, Megan Clark, Taylor Colgan,
Caroline Cooney
Music Min.: Ensemble/Instrumentalists

11:30 am Sunday, December 20, 2009
Presider:
Father Ed Fialkowski
Lector: Jim Cascino, Elizabeth Golden
Euch. Min.: Winnie Bowles, Cynthia Caburnay, Krystyna  Chadzichristos, Dolores DeRosa, Frank DeRosa,  Loraine Dooley,
Mary Dubiel, Coord., Anna  Egelston, Kathy Freiburger, Pat Garrity, Cathy Sloan
Altar Serv.: Brandon Calderon, Michael Cieniawa,
Sarah Dietelhoff, Shannon Dempsey
Music Min.: Cantor/Instrumentalist

14

Our Lady of the Wayside
Upcoming Events

Monday, December 14, 2009 - Sunday, December 20, 2009

SACRED LITURGY


Monday, December 14, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am For the Deceased Members of OLW

Tuesday, December 15, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am For the Deceased Members of OLW

Wednesday, December 16, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Cleo Ouellette, James Fahey

Thursday, December 17, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Bob Moore

Friday, December 18, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Pauline Foley

Saturday, December 19, 2009
8:30 am Communion Service
5:00 pm The Smith Family, Elizabeth Sansone,
Alberta Jackson, Priscilla Patterson, Eugene Duffy

Sunday, December 20, 2009
7:00 am Mr. & Mrs. Francis Bourdeau, Lee Corcoran
and For the People of OLW
8:15 am James & Joan Erskine, Everett Lee,
Anna & Orlando Mastrangeli
9:45 am Mary Rudnik, Walt Warren
11:30 am Kelly Trecka, Nick Pecora, Jim Doherty,
Kathleen Louise Diviak, Patricia Cavers


Wednesday, December 16, 2009
12:30-2:30 p.m. School Class in PC200 Neumann Room

4:00-5:00 p.m. Jubilation Children's Choir  in Gathering Place

7:00-12:00 p.m. PADS in Rectory Rooms Basement

7:00-9:30 p.m. Parish Pastoral Council in Gathering Place

Thursday, December 17, 2009
6:00-7:45 a.m. PADS in Rectory Rooms Basement

8:30-11:45 a.m. School Class in PC200 Neumann Room

12:00-3:00 p.m. Women's Bridge Group in Gathering Place

12:30-2:30 p.m. School Class in PC200 Neumann Room

1:00-9:30 p.m. Christmas Program Gym

4:00-5:00 p.m. Junior Jubilation Children's Choir
in Gathering Place

7:00-9:00 p.m. Bible Study Matthew A in PC204 Cabrini Room

9:00-10:30 p.m. Youth Ministry CYO Basketball Team C in Gym

Friday, December 18, 2009
8:30-11:45 a.m. School Class in PC200 Neumann Room

9:30-11:30 a.m. Bible Study Friday Morning
in Gathering Place

12:30-2:30 p.m. School Class in PC200 Neumann Room

1:00-3:00 p.m. Girls Basketball in Gym

3:05-4:30 p.m. Girl Scout Troop 576 in Rectory Meeting Room

3:10-3:55 p.m. Foreign Language Class in E222 & E223

3:15-6:15 p.m. Boys Basketball in Gym

8:30-10:00 p.m. AA Regular Meeting in Rectory Meeting Room

Saturday, December 19, 2009
8:00-10:00 a.m. Cheerleading in Gym

9:00-11:00 a.m. St. Vincent DePaul in PC204 Cabrini Room

10:15 a.m.-2:15 p.m. Girls Basketball in Gym

12:00-3:00 p.m. Music for Youth School Activity in E209

Sunday, December 20, 2009
8:00-11:30 a.m. Sunday Coffee in Gathering Place (after  the 7:00, 8:15 & 9:45 a.m. Masses)

During the  Children's Liturgy of the Word
9:45 a.m. Mass in Rectory Meeting Room

9:45-10:45 a.m. Religious Education Pre/K in E109, E110,  E113, E210

5:00 p.m. Simbang Gabi Liturgy in Church (Refreshments  and Fellowship will follow at the Fr. Mackin  Center-Gym

6:00-9:00 p.m. YM Peer Ministry in Parish Center 2nd floor

7:30-9:00 p.m. Separated/Divorce Support Group
in Gathering Place




Readings for the Week of December 13, 2009
Sunday: Zep 3:14-18a/Phil 4:4-7/Lk 3:10-18
Monday: Nm 24:2-7, 15-17a/Mt 21:23-27
Tuesday: Zep 3:1-2, 9-13/Mt 21:28-32
Wednesday: Is 45:6b-8, 18, 21b-25/Lk 7:18b-23
Thursday: Gn 49:2, 8-10/Mt 1:1-17
Friday: Jer 23:5-8/Mt 1:18-25
Saturday: Jgs 13:2-7, 24-25a/Lk 1:5-25
Next Sunday: Mi 5:1-4a/Heb 10:5-10/Lk 1:39-45
©Liturgical Publications Inc

PRAY FOR THE SICK

Tom Amberg
Pam Barton
Dr. Marianne Budzeika
Dr. Fernando Caburnay
Chad Demas
Donna Donor
Kristina Fitzgerald
Bev Folkedahl
Michael Harth
Genevieve Izycki
Grace Kaplafka
Joseph Kopec
Joshua Leese
Joe Losos

15

16

PARISH LIFE COMMISSION

PARTICIPATE IN OUR ONGOING EVENTS

Enjoy the parish community by meeting other parishioners at events such as Women's Golf, Men's Golf, Women's Bowling, Men's Basketball, Women's Bridge, Widows of Wayside (W.O.W.), and Christian Family Movement (CFM), the Senior Group and Fil-American Group.

Contact parishlife@olwparish.org with questions or call the Parish Center at (847) 253-5353 and ask for the Parish Life Commission Rep.

WORSHIP AND SPIRITUAL LIFE

BIBLE STUDY
Focus on the readings for the coming Sunday and their context in scripture. No registration or fee.
Come when your schedule permits. Friday mornings in the Gathering Place 9:30 - 11:15

ROSARY PRAYER GROUP
Meets in the Seton room (#201) every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Contact - Chris

CARE AND OUTREACH

THE ELIZABETH MINISTRY

The Elizabeth Ministry offers families prayer and support during the joys, challenges and sorrows of the childbearing years. To contact a minister,
please complete a card from the banner in the back of the church, or call the parish office or e-mail 
ElizabethMinistry@olwparish.org. or elizabethministry@worldnet.att.net

FUNERAL LUNCHEON MINISTRY

This Ministry offers families in their time of sorrow a continental breakfast in the Gathering Place or sit down luncheon in the  Rectory Meeting Room. For further information contact the parish office.

SPECIAL NEEDS MINISTRY

Special Needs Ministry was established to identify and meet the needs of our parishioners with special needs. Contact the parish office or email - special-needs@att.net or specialneeds@olwparish.org.

S.H.A.R.E.

OLW is a member of S.H.A.R.E., a job ministry of the 3 Arl. Hgts. Catholic parishes as well as St. Huberts job network. Contact us at employmentministry@olwparish.org., or you can contact the team members privately: call Don Oehlert , Sharon Zurek or Tom King .

ST. VINCENT DEPAUL SOCIETY

An emergency source for short term financial help. For information or assistance, contact the DePaul voice mailbox at the parish 847-253-5353 x398.

DIVORCED AND SEPARATED SUPPORT
Every Sunday 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. Gathering Place - Contact: Parish Office - 847-253-5353

ANNULMENT INFORMATION AND ASSISTANCE
Call the Parish Office at 847-253-5353 and an annulment minister will contact you.

MOMS PLUS

Moms Plus invites all moms looking to make-new friends to join us weekly on Wednesdays from 9:30 a.m.-11:00 a.m. in the Rectory basement of OLW. Please contact Christine Matker Gilbert for more information.