434 W. Park Street
Arlington Heights, IL 60005
Phone: 847-253-5353
Web Site: www.olwparish.org

Pastoral Staff

Mr. Ken Adamick
Parish Business Manager

Thomas & Irene Corcoran
Permanent Deacon Couple

Ms. Donna Cunningham
Pastoral Associate

Ms. Judith Dzieglewicz
Assistant Principal

Rev. Edward R. Fialkowski
Pastor

Brendan Foley
Permanent Deacon

Ms. Kathleen Freiburger
Director of Office Services

Dr. Donald Grossnickle
Permanent Deacon

Mr. Dan McMahon
Director of Music

Mr. Kevin O'Connell
Youth Director

Mrs. Patsy Rhinehart
Parish Nurse

Sister Joan Shields
Sister Adrienne Weseman
Directors of Religious Education

Rev. Patrick M. Wangai
Associate Pastor

Mr. David Wood
School Principal

Rev. Daniel J. Brady
Retired Priest & Resident

Rev. Harold T. O'Hara
Founder of OLW
(Deceased)

Rev. John J. Mackin
Pastor Emeritus
(Deceased)

Rev. Richard J. Ehrens
Pastor Emeritus
(Deceased)

Rev. Mick Egan
Weekend Presider


CHRISTMAS ANGELS NEEDED!

"When you hold a lunch or dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet invite the poor, the cripple, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."
Luke 14:12-14

As many of you know, for the last eight years the generous families and friends of Our Lady of the Wayside Parish have been supporting a wonderful cause. We have been helping St. Benedict's parish in Chicago feed approximately 350 homeless and lonely folks on Christmas day. Again, this year our help is needed with coordinating this effort.

Last year, the OLW community provided 30 freshly cooked and carved turkeys and enough monetary donations for us to purchase: 110 lbs. of ham and enough dinner rolls, butter, half & half, coffee, pumpkin pie, sugar, corn, green beans, cranberries, mashed potatoes, stuffing, paper goods, soda, milk, silverware, etc. to feed over 350 people! Our cars were loaded Christmas morning and a group of Waysider's drove down to St. Benedict's to deliver the food, help prepare the parish hall, visit with some very lonely people, and help spread the joy of Christmas! We pray that you are able to support this wonderful cause again this year!

You can help by offering to cook a nice big juicy turkey, cook a ham or three, make mashed potatoes for 50 (hams and potatoes provided) or make a monetary donation. The turkeys can be dropped off at Pete and Jan LeTourneau's house on Christmas Eve or between 8:00 and 8:30 Christmas morning. The "shopping team" will use the donations to buy all of the other items. We will probably go shopping Wednesday, December 23, so we would appreciate donations made by Monday, December 21. Donations can be dropped off at the LeTourneau's house, checks can be made payable to the OLW/St. Vincent DePaul Society for tax purposes. Another way you can help is by providing hats, scarfs and glove sets for the homeless, you can wrap these if you like or just drop them off. These are raffled off after the dinner and often times it will be the only gift many people will receive for the year. If you are not in a position to help this year, please remember the folks at St. Benedict in your prayers.

As mentioned earlier, there are some families who caravan down to St. Benedicts on Christmas morning. Some folks just take the trip to help deliver the food and head back home. Others like to stay awhile to help prepare the hall and food or just visit with some of the guests. The caravan leaves the LeTourneau house at 8:30 a.m. Christmas Day. The guests are served from 11:00 a.m. a.m. to 1:00 p.m. They are usually looking for servers, so if you would like to serve the meal; plan to arrive around 10:30 to receive your table assignment.

Please let us know if you are able to cook a turkey, make a donation, or help Christmas morning.

Christmas Blessings to all,
Pete and Jan LeTourneau

SOCIETY OF
ST. VINCENT DEPAUL REFLECTION

Jesus was born during the night of the year when darkness is the longest. The Savior of the world comes for the people in dark places. The real, lasting, and deep joy is that the Light shines there. That is why we can say to each other, "Merry Christmas!"

This month, through your gifts, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul was able to bring the light of Jesus into the dark places of the poor, by assisting many families, providing food, and help with utility and rent bills. Thanks for helping those who are poor to be able to say "Merry Christmas!"

JOY-HUMILITY AND PATIENCE
My Christmas wish for you is, "Rejoice in the Lord always. I shall say it again: rejoice. Your kindness should be known to all."
Father Ed

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ALL INFORMATION

In The YM Section Below

So here's the deal. Because of bulletin deadlines being moved up during the holiday season, the information below may not be the most updated. Certainly most of it will be current, yet it's better to be safe than sorry. Please double check with forms online and by contacting Kevin in the YM Office. Thanks!

WINTER DOWNTOWN OUTING
So this is going to be amazing. Details are still be arranged. Items up for discussion revolve around what exactly to do: ice-skating at Millennium Park, Christkindlmarket Market, the "Windows", and dinner downtown. We will most likely meet at the Arlington Heights train station a little after noon. Forms will be online with exact details.

CORE
We'll meet tonight (Sun) December 20th from 5-7 p.m. Let's do a combo regular meeting plus a little Christmas fun thrown in.

TEEN MISSION TRIP
Because of CHWC camp date conflicts, a final decision for the OLW Teen Mission Trip is still to be confirmed. We will be participating in either the Betsy Lane, KY camp July 11th-17th or the Pittsburgh, PA camp July 18th-24th. A final determination will be made early January and registration will open then. Please know that spots may fill up almost immediately.

KAIROS
Kairos 9 will take place over President's day weekend, Feb. 12th-15th. Registrations have been coming in. Please sign-up as soon as possible. Both the Registration brochure and Permission forms are online. Kairos is open to any high school junior or senior. A great opportunity to get away from the craziness of life and focus on one's self, others, and God. Could be one of the most powerful weekends in your life. Amazing fun as well.

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RELIGIOUS EDUCATION PROGRAM

Sunday, December 20

"I Am Special" Pre K(4) and K have their last class before Christmas.

Monday, December 21

There is a practice in Church at the following times for the children who have participation in the Christmas Eve Masses. The participants received confirmation of their parts through the mail. Parents are requested to wait in church for their children for the practice.


3:00 Christmas Eve Mass
Practice in Church at 10:00.

5:00 Christmas Eve Mass -
Practice in Church at 11:00.

Tuesday, December 22

No R.E.P. Classes. Christmas Vacation.

Thursday, December 24

Christmas Eve Masses 3:00 and 5:00 have participation by the children.

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CAMP WOW HIGH SCHOOL COUNSELORS
Applications are finally available for Camp WOW high school counselors. Please take some time to consider if this is right for you. We are looking for freshman-seniors who believe they have leadership skills along with a strong Christian witness. If this is you, apps can be downloaded off the parish website. Deadline is January 7th. Spots will be tight this year. Camp WOW is truly a fantastic combination of fun, faith, and friendship.

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ST. LUKE'S MESSAGE OF GOOD NEWS
By Sister Adrienne

When looking for some interesting and meaningful Advent reading, we cannot do better than turn to the Gospel of St. Luke, the master storyteller. Many of the favorite Gospel readings the world over are to be found in Luke's writings. For example, the Christmas story of the newborn in the manger; the parables of the Prodigal Son and the Good Samaritan, and the stories of Jesus' encounters with Mary and Martha, Zacchaeus, and the two disciples on the road to Emmaus.

The telling of the Good News by Luke is unique in that he addresses it to a single person, Theophilus by name, a Gentile convert. Luke states in the beginning of his gospel that "many have undertaken to set down an orderly account of the events that have been fulfilled among us" (LK. 1:1), but he apparently doesn't find their accounts adequate, and he goes about providing his own "orderly account." Luke has earned high praise as an artist, historian, and theologian. In fact, those who take time to read the third gospel are in for a treat! Luke's gospel is sometimes referred to as the upside-down Gospel, Gospel of Joy, Gospel of Women, and even Gospel of the Lost and Found.

Luke used Mark's Gospel, already written, as a basic framework for his own story of Jesus. He removed repetitions, and provided connecting links that make for a smooth story flow. Consequently, in terms of literary artistry and language skill, Luke is in a class by himself.

The Holy Spirit gave us two accounts of the Christmas events (Matthew and Luke) and they do not need to be in harmony, as they are not exact historical records. These writers put together their gospels, including the infancy stories, in the light of their faith in the Resurrection. In other words, they knew how the story turned out, so they connected the story of Christ's birth to his glorious rising.  The readings during the Christmas Season help us appreciate the Incarnation, that is, God taking on humanity and embracing the human condition. Christmas reminds us that Jesus is present with us in our lives, in our world, and this overwhelming reality sustains us throughout our lives.

Luke speaks of Jesus' role as prophet in his public ministry. He also uses Jesus' mission to "bring good news to the poor" to stress that Jesus brings salvation to all people. St. Luke emphasizes the fact that Jesus targets the poor, when he tells the story of the rich man dressed in luxurious clothing, who dines sumptuously while the poor Lazarus lies at his door. He then quotes Jesus' words, "Blessed are you poor, for yours is the kingdom of God," and shows God setting things right by a reversal of fortunes. The prophetic wisdom of Luke suggests that material possessions are not in themselves evil. They are, however, hazardous to spiritual health. Possessions expose what the heart treasures, in what we place our faith.

The true root of Luke's good news, however, is the unconditional love and mercy of God toward his creatures.  In fact, according to Luke, Jesus' entire ministry is likewise an expression of God's mercy. "The blind receive their sight, the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, the poor have the good news brought to them." (LK, 7:22).  In his stories of the three parables, the Lost Sheep, the Lost Coin, and the Prodigal son, we are given stories that demonstrate the lengths that divine Love will go to in seeking and finding those lost to love.

Repeatedly in Luke, God's amazing grace powerfully transforms those who encounter it. An unexpected catch of fish brings Peter to his knees; a woman forgiven much, loves much; and Zacchaeus, an outcast and up in a tree, is inspired to be generous by Jesus' willingness to enter his house.

God's mercy is further shown by Jesus' going often to dine at table with outcasts and elite alike. He joyously enters into table fellowship, which is always inclusive.  Who is "in" and who is "out" is highlighted in the parables of the lost and once again reversal of roles is emphasized. Gentiles from east and west will sit with Abraham and Isaac and Jacob, and the religious leaders will be cast out, the well-to-do will be excluded and the poor, crippled, blind, and lame will fill the Master's home.

According to Luke's Gospel, the community of saving grace into which Jesus draws people ought to communicate its faith as Jesus did, not simply by words, but by actions. Such ways of acting might include what we do with material possessions and how we dine (in the inclusive joy of the lost and found.)

For Luke, the story of Jesus becomes our story, as we join the risen Jesus in the Eucharistic liturgies of the coming year. Gathered at the table to dine with our Prophet-host, we will have reason to hope, that like the first disciples at Emmaus, we, too, can have our eyes opened as we read Luke together...in joy...at the table of the found.

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Prayer to the Holy Family

Jesus, savior and center of our faith,
draw all people to share the life
of your body, the Church.

Mary, mother of the Lord and mother
of the Church, help us to welcome
all those who have been away.
Joseph, guide and guardian of the
Holy Family, inspire us to be
faithful witnesses to our
life in Christ.

O Holy Family, pray that we may learn
to welcome, serve and support
all who come to share
in our family of faith.
Amen

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MINISTERS OF THE LITURGY


5:00 pm Saturday, December 26, 2009
Presider: Father Mick Egan
Lector: TBA
Euch. Min.: TBA
Altar Serv.: Kathryn Jamieson, Meg Naughton
Music Min.: Choir/Instrumentalist

7:00 am Sunday, December 27, 2009
Presider: Father Paschal Mbagwu
Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching

Lector: TBA
Euch. Min.: TBA

Altar Serv.: TBA
Music Min.: Cantor

8:15 am Sunday, December 27, 2009
Presider:
Father Patrick Wangai
Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching
Lector: TBA
Euch. Min.: TBA
Altar Serv.: Claire Hansen, Andrew Hansen, Danielle Prchal
Music Min.: Cantor

9:45 am Sunday, December 27, 2009
Presider:
Father Ed Fialkowski
Deacon Brendan Foley - Preaching
Lector: TBA
Euch. Min.: TBA
Altar Serv.: Ethan Masters, Amanda Wilt, Nathan Walters,
Rebecca Stapleton
Music Min.: Ensemble/Instrumentalists

11:30 am Sunday, December 27, 2009
Presider:
Father Dan Brady
Deacon Brendan Foley - Preaching
Lector: TBA
Euch. Min.: TBA
Altar Serv.: Ellis Shalton, Danny Somary
Music Min.: Cantor/Instrumentalist

PRAY FOR THE DECEASED


For the Deceased Members
of Our Lady of the Wayside

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Our Lady of the Wayside
Upcoming Events

Monday, December 21, 2009 - Sunday, December 27, 2009

SACRED LITURGY


Monday, December 21, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am The Gaughan Family

Tuesday, December 22, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Evelyn McGrath, Larry Cahill, Noella Lynch

Wednesday, December 23, 2009
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am Marguerite McNamara, Noella Lynch,
Mary Kowalczyk, Herbert Lorenz

Thursday, December 24, 2009 - Christmas Eve
7:00 am Communion Service
8:30 am For the Deceased Members of OLW
3:00 pm For the Deceased Members of OLW
5:00 pm For the Deceased Members of OLW
6:30 pm For the Deceased Members of OLW
10:00 pm For the Deceased Members of OLW

Friday, December 25, 2009 - Christmas Day
7:00 am For the Deceased Members of OLW
8:15 am For the Deceased Members of OLW
9:45 am For the Deceased Members of OLW
11:30 am For the Deceased Members of OLW

Saturday, December 26, 2009
8:30 am Communion Service
5:00 pm Robert Walters, Chester Szymanski

Sunday, December 27, 2009
7:00 am For the People of OLW
8:15 am Robert Moore, Veronica Egelski, Elizabeth Maciasz,
9:45 am Marie Koulias, Bill Banach, Roger Herrmann,
Alice Duffy
11:30 am Jim Doherty, Mary Paolicchi,
Robert & Margaret Odegard, Frances Lynch,  Patricia Cavers

Readings for the Week of December 20, 2009

Monday: Sg 2:8-14 or Zep 3:14-18a/Lk 1:39-45
Tuesday: 1 Sm 1:24-28/Lk 1:46-56
Wednesday: Mal 3:1-4, 23-24/Lk 1:57-66
Thursday: Morning: 2 Sm 7:1-5, 8b-12, 14a, 16/Lk 1:67-79
Friday: Vigil: Is 62:1-5/Acts 13:16-17, 22-25/Mt 1:1-25  or 1:18-25 Midnight: Is 9:1-6/Ti 2:11-14/Lk 2:1- 14 Dawn: Is 62:11-12/Ti 3:4-7/Lk 2:15-20Day:  Is 52:7-10/Heb 1:1-6/Jn 1:1-18 or 1:1-5, 9-14
Saturday:  Acts 6:8-10; 7:54-59/Mt 10:17-22Next Sunday:   Sir 3:2-7, 12-14 or 1 Sm 1:20-22, 24-28/Col    3:12-21 or 3:12-17 or 1 Jn 3:1-2, 21-24/Lk 2:41-  52
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PRAY FOR THE SICK

Joe Serpico, Dr. Marianne Budzeika, Julie Thornton, Michael Harth, Joe Walker, Sr, Frank Mancini, Donna Thompson, Marcella Weber, Bev Folkedahl, Dr. Fernando Caburnay, Alex Reitmeyer, Kristina Fitzgerald, Phyllis Ziobrowski, Bob Seputis, Jr., Donna Donor, John O'Neill, Maureen Sexson, Tom Amberg, Joe Losos, Grace Kaplafka, Pam Barton, , Patt Toomey, Joshua Leese, Joseph Kopec, Genevieve Izycki, Hildegarde Pearson, Chad Demas, Marty Finis

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PARISH LIFE COMMISSION

PARTICIPATE IN OUR ONGOING EVENTS

Enjoy the parish community by meeting other parishioners at events such as Women's Golf, Men's Golf, Women's Bowling, Men's Basketball, Women's Bridge, Widows of Wayside (W.O.W.), and Christian Family Movement (CFM), the Senior Group and Fil-American Group.

Contact parishlife@olwparish.org with questions or call the Parish Center at (847) 253-5353 and ask for the Parish Life Commission Rep.

WORSHIP AND SPIRITUAL LIFE

BIBLE STUDY
Focus on the readings for the coming Sunday and their context in scripture. No registration or fee.
Come when your schedule permits. Friday mornings in the Gathering Place 9:30 - 11:15.

ROSARY PRAYER GROUP
Meets in the Seton room (#201) every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Contact - Chris

CARE AND OUTREACH

THE ELIZABETH MINISTRY

The Elizabeth Ministry offers families prayer and support during the joys, challenges and sorrows of the childbearing years. To contact a minister,
please complete a card from the banner in the back of the church, or call the parish office or e-mail 
ElizabethMinistry@olwparish.org. or elizabethministry@worldnet.att.net

FUNERAL LUNCHEON MINISTRY

This Ministry offers families in their time of sorrow a continental breakfast in the Gathering Place or sit down luncheon in the  Rectory Meeting Room. For further information contact the parish office.

SPECIAL NEEDS MINISTRY

Special Needs Ministry was established to identify and meet the needs of our parishioners with special needs. Contact the parish office or email - special-needs@att.net or specialneeds@olwparish.org.

S.H.A.R.E.

OLW is a member of S.H.A.R.E., a job ministry of the 3 Arl. Hgts. Catholic parishes as well as St. Huberts job network. Contact us at employmentministry@olwparish.org., or you can contact the team members privately: call Don Oehlert, Sharon Zurek or Tom King.

ST. VINCENT DEPAUL SOCIETY

An emergency source for short term financial help. For information or assistance, contact the DePaul voice mailbox at the parish 847-253-5353 x398.

DIVORCED AND SEPARATED SUPPORT
Every Sunday 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. Gathering Place - Contact: Parish Office - 847-253-5353

ANNULMENT INFORMATION AND ASSISTANCE
Call the Parish Office at 847-253-5353 and an annulment minister will contact you.

MOMS PLUS

Moms Plus invites all moms looking to make-new friends to join us weekly on Wednesdays from 9:30 a.m.-11:00 a.m. in the Rectory basement of OLW. Please contact Christine Matker Gilbert for more information.